Saturday, August 29, 2015

Cintai Corito's Garden: A Sweet Escape from the Busy World

Amanda Jane Sturge says, “Love is the food of life, travel is the dessert.” I say, “Travel with the one you love, it’s a healthy way to celebrate life.”

I always love the idea of visiting new places, especially if it’s with the one I love. That’s why whenever I see beautiful attractions posted online, my desire of having a first-hand experience bursts out.

Among the places I was able to visit this year was Cintai Corito’s Garden, where my boyfriend and I celebrated our 2nd anniversary. It’s a Balinese-inspired sanctuary in Lipa City, Batangas that offers every visitor a sweet escape from the busy world.
  
The main entrance will surely hit you with the Bali feels. As you walk around the place, you’ll see a lot of sculptures, and statues that are perfectly designed according to its theme. Here’s few of my favorite spots:

Always ready for selfie! :D
Gigantic walls located at the back of the resort.
This one's my favorite! 
Even the statues are smiling!
Let's go swimming!
What’s lovely about Coritos is that you’re free to take pictures to all open sites. Besides the villas, swimming pools, and gigantic walls, I was also amazed by how the bathroom was structured.

It may look like a cabinet, but it's really the bathroom door!
Feels good to freshen up here.

Plus, they serve delicious meals too! We had chicken bbq, fish fillet, stirred veggies and soup for lunch. (And btw, we also had lemonade juice for the welcoming drinks.)



So if you’re looking for a refreshing getaway, then this garden resort must be on your bucket list! Make sure your cameras and smartphones are fully charged to not miss all the picture-prefect spots. 

Adios from us, 'til my next travel blog! :)

2nd anniversary at Corito's Garden


Cintai Corito's Garden offers day tour and overnight package, as well as prenup pictorials. 
Visit coritosgarden.com and discover more about their variety of accommodations at reasonable rates.


Sunday, May 4, 2014

Look Up : A Letter To This Generation

Today's generation is dominated by recurring advancement of technology. This has been very evident in all parts of the globe  which perhaps, everyone has been guilty about. As I browsed through the newsfeed on Facebook, I saw the video Look Up by Gary Turk which seriously amused me and opened my eyes on the real state of today's generation. 

Disconnect to Connect

"We're generation of idiots, smartphones and dumb people." I can never blame Gary Turk for describing this generation that way. Wherein beauty is measured by how many likes you get on Facebook and height of emotions are bragged on one's status.

Photos are widely seen anywhere  from what you eat on each meal of the day, how you look when you just woke up or even after taking a bath. Though posting photos is not a big issue here, we must still consider if such thing is too much. It's not about secrecy, but sometimes valuing some things as private is intimate than what others think.

Instead of shouting out loud anger through statuses, why not speak to them. Your monitor would not respond either and the situation will be worsened when others try to involve themselves. Just like the same old adage says, "not all are concerned, some are just curious." Which I agreed the most on what Gary Turk expressed, "Talk to people. Learn to co-exist."

Losing the Sense of Old School

Nowadays, kids are used to playing on IPads and computers for games are easily downloadable on app stores. But have they ever experienced climbing trees? How about playing street games such as patintero, tumbang preso, sekyo and many others

Imagine... they are starting to lose the sense of childhood that the previous generations used to have. It was never wrong allowing them to enjoy gadgets, but we must still teach them on what real childhood is.

Admittedly, social networking sites are best for sharing photos. Thanks to technology, friends around the globe could get to see updates from you. But are there still people who print photos and have them hanged on the wall or placed on a photo album? Aren't these the better ways for keeping memories? 

Look Up instead of Looking Down

Relationships are strongly built by communication, by real, sensible conversations. Question is, what does it take to have a real one? In this generation surrounded by inventions, some have forgotten the true essence of communication.

Spending hours with special people requires eye contact. Forget about looking at your phones, IPads or gadgets. Appreciate every moment. Listen to what he/she says. See the smile on his/her face. Embrace the laughter you both feel.

As what Gary Turk said, "When you're too busy looking down you don't see the chances you miss." So, why miss a thing? If all you have to do is put that down even for just a while then you will get to experience what true happiness is.


Sunday, April 28, 2013

IRR: Ideal. Real. Right.

"If we remain stuck in the idea that every potential mate must meet an idealistic standard, we miss out on real opportunities to meet real people." ~ Jean Cirillo

As early as young age, people begin to dream—a picture perfect family, predetermined career, and the like. Most of us have this innately. We are inspired on looking forward to the future. We think ahead. We imagine things in ways we want it to be. But between love and career, which do you think confuses the Right, Real and Ideal? Perhaps, many would go for love.

Idealistic and Realistic Standard


Would you settle for someone who's real or ideal? How will you know if that person is the right one? Apparently, this is one of the most simplest questions in the world and yet remains complicated. From the moment you read this, think of someone whom you think is ideal.

  • good-looking; handsome, beautiful, a hunk, a goddess
  • rich; has a living, a business, and a established career
  • smart; sports buff 
  • talented; dances, sings, acts
Aren't the characteristics lovely? Yes. He/she is ideal. But is that person real? I mean, in a different perspective, could you come up something real with the person you think is ideal? Not all the time. Now, take a second to think someone who has been there for you all the time?
  • listens to your stories and problems
  • accepts and respects you
  • spends time with you
  • makes you happy, feel loved and secure
Have you thought of someone? If you did, then someone real do exists! And since you were able to recognize the difference between the two, congrats! you are a normal person who dreams and comprehends. :)

Realizing the Right One

Luckily, there are some who met theirs who are both ideal and real. Someone they are deeply in love with who has likable characteristics and individuality. However, we all have personal preferences. Someone who is ideal and real for you may not be the same for the other. In the end, does it really matter? When the right one comes, you'll know. So for those who are deaf and blind who keep on denying that they already found the one. Here's a quick checklist:

  • He/She is the right one when you stopped thinking on where standard he/she belongs.
  • When you no longer care if that person doesn't meet any of your standards.
  • When you look at the person and not on what that person has to offer.
  • When your questions in life finally had answers. and,
  • When you can't even ask for more.
Now, think again...

Last Note

Remember that someone who's ideal cannot always be real and sometimes someone who's real can barely be ideal. The chance of meeting the right one always depend on you. Fate brings you on the situation that you yourself has made.

Friday, March 22, 2013

Book Review & Summary: The Five People You Meet In Heaven


I got tired of browsing delish recipes on the Internet so I decided to read some books online. Trying to reminisce my College days, suddenly I remember a book that my professor used to say –The Five People You Meet in Heaven. Amid my reading, I felt this curiosity rushing through my veins. The excitement is there that propels me to keep on reading. It was beautifully written, and the lines helped in bringing out the best of the story. Some adage says that when you thought of putting yourself into the character’s shoes simply means that you were get caught by the story. It is not a romantic novel that everyone could cling onto; however, it is an inspiring story of living life on earth and seeing how you lived on earth once you reached heaven.

I can’t really interpret how the main character, “Eddie” looks like.  But, Mitch Albom described him as an 83 year-old man whose character’s description changes as the narration of the story goes on.  At some point he is courageous, sometimes he is coward. He is loving but he lost himself after a sudden incident in his life. In my own point of view, the plot consists of three subplots—first twist, highlight and ending. These three are correlative among each other. Metaphorically, they are under the same roof which is Eddie’s life and death.

The first twist dwelt more on Eddie’s way to his death. He attempted to save the four people on a ride not because it is his job as the maintenance of the amusement park but because he wanted to help. What bothers him is if he was able to save the little girl he saw. The highlight on the other hand emphasized on how he affected some significant people in his life and what roles they play in each others lives. And the ending? I found it having double meanings which I will explicate later on. Mitch Albom’s concept of heaven is not far beyond on how we think it is. Apparently, it seems like he himself already have seen and touchdown heaven. That alone made me moved into the thinking of living my life well especially when the five people he met in heaven entered the picture.

First is the Blue Man, who died because of the young Eddie who chased after his ball. He taught Eddie that, “There are no random acts. That we are all connected. That you can no more separate one life from another than you can separate a breeze from a wind.” Eddie was young back then that is why he is completely unaware on how it is relevant on his life. It was an accident wherein the good thing about the Blue Man’s death is that Eddie lived. It may not look fair but “...fairness does not govern life and death. If it did, no good person would ever die young.”, the Blue Man said. “Strangers are just family you have yet to come know.”, he quipped.

The second person he met was from a different lens. He even recognized who’s the man—the Captain. Eddie worked as a military man before. He has a brave heart. Yet, his random act of bravery caused him to break his leg which he never thought he got from a friend. He wanted to save a little girl from the fire but the troop don’t want to leave him alone and get burned. So the Captain shoot his leg to stop him. Eddie was hospitalized afterward, and he barely get intact with his friends and never heard about the Captain, not knowing that the Captain died. What did the Captain taught him? “Sacrifice is a part of life. It is supposed to be. It is not something to regret. It is something to aspire to.” And, “Sometimes when you sacrifice something precious, you’re not really losing it. You’re just passing it on someone else.”

And so the third person seemed to be a stranger to Eddie. That person is Ruby; she is the woman behind Ruby Pier where he and his father worked. His husband Emile built it for her as a gift, but unfortunately he died when the pier was on fire. Ruby supposed to be the most significant in terms of implying to him the truth about his father. When he was young, his relationship with his father was cruel and so when he grew up—a lot worse. But he barely knew about what happened on that night when his father died. Mickey, his father’s friend was on their house that moment. He saw him drunk and intimately with his wife in his own house. They fought. But Eddie’s father ended up saving his friend from a huge wave of water in the shore. Lesson: “Things that happen before you are born still affect you, and people who come before your time affect you as well.” Ruby also questioned him, “Which was worse when left unexplained: a life, or a death?” And then she added, “Holding anger is a poison. It eats us from the inside.”After hearing these, Eddie was able to forgive his father and said the words he used to utter whenever his father summons him, "It's fixed."

Have I told you that Eddie is a married man? Okay. Here it is. The fourth person he met in heaven is Marguerite, his wife. Eddie’s married life is simple yet completely happy. His wife invites along friends every time it’s Eddie’s birthday. She often surprise him in little and special ways. But Eddie weakened after his wife’s death. She died wanting to apologize after yelling on him over the phone. What Marguerite told him in heaven is that, “Lost love is still love. It takes a different form… Memory is your partner. You nurture it. You hold it. You dance with it.” “Life has to end. Love doesn’t.”

Eddie kept on asking to the prior four people he met in heaven if he saved the girl. Not knowing, she's the fifth and the last person he will meet in heaven. Who's that little girl? Remember the incident he had with captain wherein he wanted to save a little girl from the fire? It happened in the Philippines. And that little girl she wanted to save is also the little girl he wanted to save from the ride. Contrary to his belief. She saved him and pushed him to heaven. It's not him who saved her, it's her who saved him. Then suddenly, all of Eddie's questions were answered and his difficulty of understanding his shortcomings has come to an end. He is now ready to start a new beginning, to go back home, and to live at peace in heaven.

Each people we meet has a purpose in our lives, whether he is a friend, family, acquaintance, foe, and even stranger. You may not understand it at the moment but time will come that you will realize that it was glad that they came. Greatest Lesson of the novel?:

 "That each affects the other and the other affects the next, and the world is full of stories, but the stories are all one."

That's it! To those who haven't read the book, read it. To those who already did, lucky are you. Our life is a blessing, so let's be a blessing to each other. God Bless us all!

Sunday, February 10, 2013

'Cause it's your birthday!


Here's to my lovely friend, Eunice:

Relax babe. Today, let me do the writing for you. Though we are miles apart, there was never a second that you don't pass through our conversations. So, I guess I should tell you what happened the whole day yesterday. It has been so much fun. We did the usual things that we do whenever we are out. Jayson and I met up at Wency's  place. I arrived first. By the way, Wency cut off her long hair and it looks good on her. She gained a little weight and still has a husky voice which she got since she started working. Jayson on the other hand, flaunt his color-coordinated outfit (blue and yellow); you know how much ready he is when it comes to camwhoring.

We left Wency's place at around 11am and arrived at Aney's by 12nn. Aney also gained weight, as expected. Few changes on her figure and facial features start to come out. We saw Kuya Kain (Uyyyy!). Aney's mom kept on asking about you, reminiscing thesis days. We also had a "party like lunch" and it was pretty good. Nadz came in late which I'm not surprised of (hahaha). Jayson still love to tease her a lot which make her do that you-know-how look.We took some photos in front of the Barbecho's mini farmville. Just look at the photos once posted. Afterwards, we thought of karaokeing at SM. As we get there, Wency asked us to go first at Starbuck's, not to treat us but to introduce someone to the group. I was so excited that moment assuming that it is her special someone or someone she is dating. In my shock, It is Nickson! He wanted to catch up that is why he came. Sadly, Kit was not able to make it. He is sick and he needed rest which we understood.

Okay, moving on. We first took our snack, heavy snack actually not like the Mcdonald's food trip that we used to do. We ate at Slice and Dice and since Kit  was not there, I was in-charge for the photos. Tsk. When we are done, we proceed to our favorite past time --videoke. Just like the old times, we played around inside the videoke room, turned on and off the lights which made one staff almost approached us. Good thing we immediately opened the lights before he came in. HAHAHA. :D Those I really miss.

We miss you so much that is why I wrote this one plus I want to make your birthday very special. Ooops. Happy Birthday! I really do appreciate the call last night, I needed it. Thank you! I love you so much. :)

PS:
Wait for more!

Missing you,
Faye

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Book Review: Perks of Being a Wallflower

"...not a self-centered story but rather a story of exploring oneself and appreciating the rest." -I can sum up the novel with that.

Being a wallflower makes you see things and understand them, and that's what I loved about the story. Charlie who happens not to realize how smart he is got to use his not-so-salient persona as an advantage to explore the world of love, anxiety and pain. He found a sweet escape of life through reading novels and in writing letters to an anonymous friend. He is devastated on the feeling of being loved and appreciated. He sobs every time he gets hurt--which I think good for him to really cope with the anxiety.

The author does not dwell that much on alcohol and drugs but it really did add flavors on how Charlie started to experiment himself. A lot of teenagers might relate on it, since it tackled on issues which some teenagers might have been experiencing. I also like how it is realistically written. After all the challenges and triumphs, one must not forget to be grateful on having friends and family 'cause not everyone has such.

Monday, January 28, 2013

Silence Speaks for the Self


Silence often happens when there is a conflict, confusion and concentration. Among these, concentration leads to good silence. However, confusion and conflict can somehow be a good motivator that leads a person into concentration. “Silence is the spiritual knife which lays open our souls. If we are never silent, we never have to examine the truth about ourselves.”, as Philip Gully said.  
Silence speaks for the self. In this busy and loud world, everyone must have time to dwell on important matters about life and to unveil what is within us.

Silence Works for Health
Keeping in silence is not healthy for some same as holding it. But with proper management of it, it could create a place for relaxation and realization. Sometimes, dealing with silence can be one of the best things you can do for yourself. When it comes to health, it reduces the body's level of stress.  Aside from having a power-nap and a sleep, silence also do the social control. Through silence, a person may start to meditate and relax which recharges physical and mental batteries. It slows down the body deep rest and the body rhythm. The heartbeat rate and the breathing rate slows down as well. This helps in relaxing the whole body and provides the chance of coming out from the hustle and bustle of the world and roaring issues. 
                                                                                                                                                                                                           
Silence Acts for Discovery                                                               
People are surrounded by various commotions in the environment. And silence, being an absence and a presence, helps everyone into self uncovering.  When in silence, a person starts to think. Creative ideas and thoughts may come out which is healthy. It paves a way for communicating with the self, or what we call Intrapersonal Communication. Through this, a person  begins to listen in his inner voice and eventually makes it to the heart. Upon communicating with the self, calmness might be felt because the outer and the inner self meets the balance. "In silence, we're calmer," as said by Sharon Salzberg, co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Mass. "Silence helps us connect to that which we normally miss--elements of our experience that are subtle yet rich." Silence also helps a person find guidance in daily living. Since thinking and communication with the self became recently present, seeking for guidance and openness follows. Aside from these, silence promotes self-discovery. With the existence of the preceding benefits, one will know what he does not know about himself or knows but denies into himself. He discovers what is behind and beyond the issues that he is facing and experiencing. With that, he will eventually see and realize the importance of everyday living.