Life is not a fairytale, it's a reality.

We must have read fairytales when we were little kids and watched romantic love stories in our mature age. Undeniably, most of the girls have dreamt of a man who is exactly the same on what they have watched or read. Well, there is nothing wrong in dreaming about someone who’s ideal. Wishing that as much as possible, you would like to have someone who has admiring qualities. This might be the influence of the forms of media. We are blinded by the reality. We kept on looking for something which is not even there in the first place. Hence, we must appreciate what we have in the present. Life is not a fairytale that you could wish something from a genie or a fairy godmother to have this and have that. Life offers you reality. What you want may not be what you need.

People make their own destiny. We must not entrust it from signs and make believes. It is a matter of weighing the truth and the illusion. Though it was never wrong to dream of something big, but of course knowing its limit is an important issue.  Life is a long narration of experiences and consequences, so thus in love. What we have now is a product of the actions that we take and decisions that we make. So better not to live with the dream which is not meant to make you happy. Dreams can be sometimes cruel to the point that you were blinded on what’s not real. Dreams should serve as your inspiration, reminding you on what you want to achieve.

-Just my opinion. Think it over.